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    My Story….


    unspecifiedChildhood....

    When I was four years old, I lost my baby sibling to a miscarriage and experienced my first devastating loss. I didn't know what to do with that pain. It's taken me a lifetime to grieve that death.  I still look for this little soul in human beings I meet throughout the world. I've gotten really, really close.

    I was the kid in "resource" in elementary school. I was a slow learner and internalized this label 'til I was about 27 years old. This inspired me to become a teacher, where I made sure all of my students felt smart and capable.  

    I'm blessed and cursed as an Empath. When I was in the fourth grade my grandmother came to live with my family after my grandfather died, and I internalized her pain so deeply that I took on her arthritis inside my body. It's taken me years to get a handle on this.

    College.... 

    I experimented with bulimia and disordered eating throughout college because I hated my body and ate all of my feelings. It wasn't until I did the workshop, COR Woman, a workshop I facilitate now, that I went straight to the root of my pain and healed it and started eating healthy again and treating my body like a temple. I love my body now, everything about it.

    When I was 21 years old I was traveling throughout Europe and found myself flirting with a charming chap from the U.K.  After making out with him, his friend pulled me aside to tell me the man I had been kissing actually had a girlfriend. I immediately approached my guy, and set up a boundary with these words, "Hey dude, I found out you have a girlfriend so out of respect for her, and for myself, I will not be kissing you anymore tonight, and I will definitely not be sleeping with you." An hour later I was drugged and woke up the next morning bruised, bleeding, and very clearly raped.

    It was the worst morning of my life. In that fuzzy moment of realization I stopped believing in God and knew in my bones that this was my fault. If I wasn't such a flirt, this wouldn't have happened. I also developed the belief that setting up boundaries would cause me harm, since this man literally punished me for saying "No."

    I went down a very dark road after this night, with zero boundaries and no self respect. It took me 2 years to reveal this secret to my family and community and a lifetime to feel comfortable again on the table for my gynecologist exams. It took me 9 years to reveal this story online, which radically altered my purpose as a coach for the better. I'm happy to say that I have 95% healed from this rape, and the remaining 5% will come with time.

    One of the most empowering moments for me was giving my shame a voice at "Take Back the Night" on UC Berkeley's campus where I spoke to hundreds of survivors about my experience and healing.

    Celebration of Woman

    It's now my purpose and greatest honor to support other women who have unresolved pain from the past to release their trauma from their bodies in my workshops and retreats.

    Becoming an Adult...

    I have a Masters in Urban Education and Social Justice, and it was during my teaching career that I developed my passion for supporting human beings in living their most passionate and purposeful lives. I developed some pretty strong facilitation skills in the classroom.

    My "Saturn Return" was a heavy, heavy year, with so much loneliness, growth, and transition - and I wouldn't trade it for the world. In my 27th year I went through three breakups. 1 with my teaching career, the next with my boyfriend of 4 years, and the 3rd with prescription medication. I moved 3 times in the spam of 14 months. "A Woman's Worth" by Marianne Williamson got me through those nights.

    WY3_2582-EditI walk my talk. I've worked with some of the world's best healers, therapists, and coaches. My whole human experience is supported week after week by the best of the best.

    I've been through multiple dark night of soul breakups and reemerged more radiant and powerful than ever. The secret to healing? Feeling the pain.

    I'm 32 years old now, and thought my Saturn Return was over... But OH WAS I WRONG!!! 

    Over the past 5 years it became my badge of honor to be "medication free," - but when my depression and anxiety came back with a vengeance in September of 2019, I went through a huge ego death that welcomed anti-depressants back into my body. My brain is SO thankful to be seeing the light again. Turns out I can do my spiritual, healing work AND take medication for my brain without any shame. 

    More about me?

    I've been *that* person on an airplane who facilitated a medical emergency and kept the whole plane calm when no Doctor was present.

    I've built a coaching business with a preschool teacher's qualifications and a heart on fire for healing.

    I facilitate men's healing at the Noble Man workshop, where I hold the space for men to heal their wounds and resentments with women in similar Rite of Passage retreats.

    I've studied Orgasm, yes that's a thing.

    When I'm not taking life too seriously you'll find me at Stand Up Comedy class.

    I take my plants for walks around my house to make sure they get enough light.

    My favorite videos on YouTube have to do with natural home births... I'm obsessed with that rite of passage. 

    I love to sing. I'm currently experimenting with the harmonium.

    I've been to Burning Man 10 times and got married there this past summer. 

    I got a tattoo of a carrot on my foot because I wanted to win a contest.

    I used to be a Division I athlete at UC Berkeley. I threw the javelin. No joke.

    Oh yeah... I'm a Women's Empowerment Coach.

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